Boston or Vegas?

It's May 10th and I find myself contemplating whether or not I should get some friends together and hit Vegas for a weekend, or go to a friend's wedding. Normally the answer would be simple, I'd go to the wedding right? But not this time. This time the wedding is for a very close ex. She's a close friend and I love her dearly but I can't quite decide if I should go through the hassle of going to the wedding.

On the one hand I do want to go and I also feel like I should go, that I'll regret it if i don't. But on the other hand I don't want to go through all the BS of traveling and red-eyes, and security screenings, and dress shopping, and shoe shopping, etc all for one day. But I would get to see the munchkin as well as be there for one of my closest friends.

She said that she'd understand if I couldn't make it but she would be sad if I wasn't there.

I'm so torn...